If I had to take a poll of people who have lost a job, there would be a clear winner in the regret department. Most job seekers are really frustrated with themselves for not managing their career while they were still employed. When they most need help, they have to spend precious time reconstructing their network and getting the word out. The same story is true for people who are in a job they find exasperating, draining or frustrating. They have let things lapse and it tak